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Today we are going to talk about YOUR life and check-in to see if you are excited about the life you are creating and if you are not, then what needs to happen to make the shift?

I say “creating” because every new day is a blank canvass. You are the artist and the creator of your own life. Nobody else can take that from you. If you don’t have it, it’s because you CHOSE to give it away. Notice I said CHOSE. You had to have made a DECISION to let someone else have control of your life. And NOW is the time to take ACTION and get your power back!

Do you have big dreams?

Most dreams don’t become reality because we miss the most important step. Having an action plan! Action is the only way to turn a dream into a goal. You have to first MAKE A DECISION. Make a decision to pursue that goal or procrastinate. Either way, you made a decision.

Second, you need to COMMIT. Commit to the dream. Commit to the goal. Commit to the people in your life who are going to be with you on this journey. And commit to YOURSELF!

Third, SHOW UP, DO THE WORK, AND WATCH EVERYTHING YOU WANT SHOW UP!

So, what is it that you want to do? What is your #1 dream right now?

Write it down!

Is your dream a big one?

Does it make you a little scared to think about it?

Are you constantly thinking about it or fantasizing about it?

What are your beliefs around it? Both positive and negative.

You may have beliefs that are holding you back because those beliefs are not your truth. Check-in with yourself here and reflect on your self-talk. Reflect on everything you were told growing up. Now is the time to get rid of any belief that no longer serves you.

Do you think you are worthy?

The majority of the women I work with say worthiness is a big obstacle for them. They feel that they are not worthy of their dreams or are not educated enough to even take the step into action. So they don’t.

I am here to tell you that YOU ARE WORTHY! You are totally worthy and deserving of EXTREME wealth, joy, and romance! (Feel free to steal this affirmation because it covers all of the bases, and, it’s a good one!)

Do you think it is attainable?

You will never know unless you try. You must have a belief in yourself!

Be careful with this one. Your EGO is going to have a ton of input because your ego will tell you to be afraid and that no, it will never be attainable. Here’s why…your ego does not want change. Your ego wants you to stay right where you are, comfortable. Comfortable in your sadness. Comfortable in your self-pity. Comfortable in your current situation, whatever it is.

What steps are you taking to get there?

I encourage you to design your life as if it has already happened. Literally write out every detail and feel the excitement brewing. Sit quietly for a while and just envision that life. Every. Single. Detail.

Now, how do you feel in that life?

Write it down. Write down everything you want. Write out the details. Write out your feelings. Good AND bad.

I say bad because you may even have some negative emotions come up in the process. Some negative self-talk. Remember your friend the Ego? Your ego self telling you it’s not worth it because it will be too hard.

That’s ok.

Sit with these emotions. Give recognition to them. This awareness is going to give you tons of feedback as to why you aren’t already living this life.

The best part of this is creating that awareness because now you know where the work needs to happen to get there!

Do you want to dive deeper and discover where you want to be and how to take action to get there? Book your free 30-Minute breakthrough call today! http://bit.ly/TiffenysBreakthroughCall

Have you ever wanted something so bad but can’t get it because your inner voice tells you that you can’t have it? Do you have desires beyond what you are doing now and don’t feel you can get there? Do you often tell yourself that you don’t deserve it or you are not worthy?

I am sitting here on this beautiful Sunday morning relaxing with my coffee, looking out to all of the openness of the 36 acres we live on, and feeling immense gratitude for the life I am now living. I am grateful for the things I have. But I am even more grateful for the journey that brought me here.

I have always wanted a life, partnered with someone that shares my dreams, someone that can support me and I can support him while we work together for everything we desire. I have always wanted a life that provides a loving and open home that I consider my safe sanctuary, not only for me, but for those I love, to be able to come to during times of need.

I have all of that now and more! It took some time and many lessons over 45 years of life to get here. Why did it take so long? It’s a simple concept. I didn’t believe I deserved it. I wanted it so badly. I tried to get there so many times. When I look back, I can see that I had many things to learn. The most important lesson was learning how to receive and to fully believe that I was worthy of my desires.

I have spent the better part of 20 years working on me and taking the self-help journey. I completely believed and understood the fundamentals, but I was missing one thing in the big picture. One thing that sounds so simple but can be the most difficult to obtain.

Our stories tell us so many things. Some truths, some lies. This is the make up of our beliefs. Sometimes, our truths are buried so far down that the lies start to become our truth, and believing the lies is sometimes easier than finding our truth. We find comfort in the lies because they have been a huge part of what we become and fear holds us back when we try to step out of that comfort, causing us to retreat back to the lies. It’s a vicious cycle, but the cycle can be broken.

When I finally figured it out, I was desperate to figure out a way to change it. I wanted to believe that I am worthy. That I deserved everything that I desired. It wasn’t, and still isn’t easy. But I work at it every day. The next fulfilling desire for me? To be independently wealthy enough to commit the rest of my life to helping others create better versions of themselves and have everything they desire. I know that I will have this, because really, it’s already here. I just have to believe that I deserve it and get ready to receive.

Think about your desires. Think about how you truly feel about them. Now think about all of the thoughts surrounding those desires. Are those thoughts truth or lies? Are you telling yourself that you are deserving and worthy of receiving? Now close your eyes and breath. Visualize your desires. Visualize what your life looks like, as you already have everything you desire. Tap into the feelings. Feel the joy and the happiness surrounding your life. This, my friends, is the first step in receiving. Practice this every day, several times a day. Write about it. Talk about it. Every time a lie surrounding those desires creeps in, immediately visualize your new life. Add some affirmations around your new life, but be sure to say them and write them AS IF THAT LIFE IS ALREADY HERE. This will bring it into the present and fast track you to everything you desire. I believe in you. You are worthy. You deserve everything you desire!

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Are You Excited About Your Life?

You Are Worthy!