Have you ever wanted something so badly, but could never make it a reality? Have you wanted to improve your quality of life but can’t seem to get there? Do you give up on yourself because you seem to try and try, but can’t get it done? You are not alone. Many people struggle every day with creating the life they desire. And then there are those who are “lucky” and seem to be able to achieve everything they go after. What the heck is the big secret?
Well, there are a few things going on for these “lucky” folk. First and foremost, it is desire. The desire is so great, that they don’t let anything or anyone get in the way of what they want. Second, these people can envision already having whatever it is they desire. Once they make the decision, they immediately switch to the mindset of “I am” or “I have”. Lastly, they come from a place of “abundance” or already having everything they need.
So let’s talk desire for a moment. How BAD do want whatever it is? Does it consume your thoughts? Are your loved ones tired of hearing you talk about it? Are you daydreaming about how you feel, as though you already have it? My guess is, no. Or else you would have it! But did you catch that? Did you catch the key to the desire? If not, that’s ok. Ima tell ya!
It’s FEELING! That’s right, there are certain feelings that go hand in hand with our desires. When you think about something you want, how are you feeling about it? Are you thinking “there is no way I can have it so I may as well give up”? If so, how does that resonate within your body? Tension, stress, sadness, anger? Or do you think “I am so frickin’ excited that I have this and am going somewhere”? How do you feel now? Happiness, joy, excitement?
Our subconscious already knows that it can be a reality and as you may or may not know, those tapes from our past play over and over and our egos take over to decide what the outcome will be. You have to put that ego in check and let your subconscious go to work! Have you heard the term “thoughts become things”? This is the key to the next part. Visualizing that you already have whatever it is you desire. If you allow your ego to paint the picture, it will continually paint everything you DON’T want. This is a defense mechanism to keep you “safe” and protected from change and growth. When you let your subconscious take the lead, all of a sudden you are elated and daydreaming and feeling all of your desires coming to life. It is almost impossible to think of this in any other way other than the present tense. It has ALREADY HAPPENED because it has. You just need to open up and get ready to receive it. Now, when you think or talk about your desires, use the language “I am” and “I have”.
Now let’s talk about this thing called abundance. Coming from a place of lack is the demise to you not achieving everything you desire. When you are 100% focused on things you DON’T have, the less you WILL have. Again, it’s that Law of Attraction thing! Instead of the thought process “That costs too much money and I will never be able to afford that” or “I am always poor and will never have enough money”, turn it around. Create a different thought process around money. “I have everything I need and money flows to me freely” or “I am in abundance and only attracting more”.
When we change our thoughts, we change everything about our state of being. Thoughts become things so if you are constantly in negative thought mode, only negative will come to you. My husband is very skilled as one of the “lucky” ones. When he makes a decision that he wants something, he immediately starts visualizing that he already has it. He starts making plans. He talks about it as if it is already in his possession. He doesn’t focus on how much it costs and how much more he needs to “save” or acquire to make it happen. It has already happened and he is in the mode of being fully open and receiving. Some of our friends and family are baffled by his “luck”, but as you can see, it’s not luck at all. It’s how we think about things.
I challenge you to give it a whirl. Sure, it takes practice. I practice every day, but it’s possible to make it happen. I would love to hear about your experiences so reach out and let me know how it’s going! And remember, I believe in you!
